Bullied at Work? Don't Look For Advice, It Rarely Works
We've all heard the horror stories about bullies , mostly from our kids. But adults can be big bullies, too, and what do you do when there's one in your workplace? I was bullied by a manager for several miserable months when I spoke up to his boss and asked for more work because I was bored, and was afraid I wasn't doing enough. The fragile ego came down hard on me, and from that point on, I was picked to get the donuts for meetings, never called on in those same meetings, and was not invited to department social events. I survived but I never forgot this man. Bullies die hard in our lives. But unfortunately, they're everywhere. So, should you take advice from someone who has been bullied? Get over it. Move on. Don't get mad, get even. Not very satisfying. Now a new study is saying, forget the advice. It generally doesn't work, according to newswise.com. The reason is simple. People looking for a rational response to what may be ...