Resolution, Schmesolution, We All Make Them, Then Break Them
Ask, don't tell. No, we're not talking about gays in the military but New Year's resolutions. Experts say if you ask someone if they're going to exercise in the new year, you're far more likely to get a positive response than if you say, you're a fat pig, you need to lose weight. We all make resolutions at the new year -- and most of us drop them by about the third week of January. I know, I'm one of them -- though my determination to lose weight and run at least 3 miles a day every day has stayed strong. Of course, I've only lost about 5 pounds this year and some people still say, "I saw you out walking," when I'm jogging by. But asking about resolutions in a simple question can be a game-changing technique for people who want to influence their own or others' behavior, according to a recent study spanning 40 years of research. The research looked at the phenomenon in which asking people about performing a certain behav...