Work vs. Home: Work Wins for Most Moms
I knew it. After my son was born I stopped working. I felt lonely and depressed and put it down to being home all day with a needy baby, locked in the house (except for my morning run, which, thankfully, he didn't mind accompanying me on, in the jogger stroller -- not that he had any choice!). But over time, as he got more independent, learned to crawl, then walk, then amuse himself with Duplos and Legos, I was still depressed. It wasn't post-partum depression (well, maybe a little). But it was because I had lost who I was. Before Phillip, and even after, my work was my life. If I wasn't working, I didn't feel productive. Or, worth anything. Yes, the miracle of birth, yah, yah, yah, and I'd waited many heartbreaking years for this child. But it just wasn't enough. Yesterday, in an op-ed in the Sunday Review, I finally saw why. Writing for The New York Times, Stephanie Coontz revealed that studies have shown that women who stay at home report more s