Women, Been Cheated On? You're Actually the Winner
It was probably one of the most painful experiences in my young life. A man I was deeply in love with cheated on me. And he wound up marrying the woman he cheated on me with. But now a new study is saying that I was the winner (though not if you include the fact that he cheated on his wife, as he was only separated, with me). Yeah, he was a real dog. Researchers say that women who are cheated on "win," while the cheating ones "lose." Women who lose their unfaithful mate to another woman actually win in the long run, according to new research from Binghamton University. I went on to have many more relationships and have been happily married for over 20 years. (I would never have met my husband if I'd stayed with that one.) "Our thesis is that the woman who ‘loses’ her mate to another woman will go through a period of post-relationship grief and betrayal, but come out of the experience with higher mating intelligence that allows her to bet...